藕断丝连

藕斷絲連
ǒuduàn-sīlián
idiom

Meanings

  1. 1 the lotus root breaks but its fibres stay joined
  2. 2 to stay attached after a breakup

Examples

HSK 5
Tāmen zǎojiù fēnshǒu le, kě háishi ǒuduàn-sīlián.
They broke up long ago, but they still can't quite let each other go.
HSK 7-9
Gōngsī suīrán hé nà jiā gōngyìngshāng zhōngzhǐ le hétong, shuāngfāng què réngrán ǒuduàn-sīlián.
Although the company ended its contract with that supplier, the two sides still keep some ties.

Tips

memory
Snap a lotus root and fine sticky threads still stretch between the pieces. The image goes back to a Tang poem by 孟郊 in which a rejected wife says her heart is like the threads in a lotus root: broken, yet still joined.
usage
Mostly about former lovers who cannot make a clean break, but it works for any tie that was cut and is not quite gone.

Stroke Order

藕 ǒu
断 duàn
丝 sī
连 lián